William,
Been there, done that, but until Apple admits there is a problem, I cannot expect them to provide an update. The last Apple OS 10.6.6 update was Jan 6, 2011, and I was hoping this fix would have been included. It was not. My machine is up-to-date on all software.
And today, after two years of flawless time machine backups (mostly in Leopard), my time machine back up drive just decided to quit. Finder does not see it at all now.
Up until today, I could have lived with the unexpected ejects of my small usb-powered drives and waited for a fix. But now, with the loss of my back-up, I am most likely forced to buy a new drive with the expectations that the very same will happen again soon.
For Apple to blame the problem on faulty drives, insufficient connection cables, or having their own customers have to seek outside recommendations to fool their OS by offering questionable system tweaks and setting changes is not the answer. Nothing I have seen here seems to be a cure all for what obviously is a common problem affecting alot of users. I keep looking for a savior, but it think it has to be Apple. Still, I do appreciate everyone's efforts, and I will continue to monitor this thread for answers.
I would appreciate anyone's suggestion on a replacement hard drive for backups...if there is one.