You may be in a high-signal area. The phone connects with the mother ship every so often, in part to know where it is with respect to neighboring cells. If the signal is good, it takes only one attempt. If not, it tries again at a higher level. It keeps bumping up the power until the signal to noise ratio is adequate. If this doesn't work, then it scans for another channel and repeats. The Apple testers probably live right under a cell tower and have never encountered this. Many of us (especially AT&T customers) live in weak-signal areas, or on the border between cells, where this gets really bad. So my theory: part of the problem is AT&T's dilute network, and part of it is Apple's bad choice of firmware strategies.
I have not tried this, but I will: pick a day when you don't need the phone at all (?), charge it to 100%, and put it in airplane mode. Then see how the battery life looks.