Apologies for yelling All..
deggie, you are a heavy user on the forum and I just find it difficult to keep hearing about your workarounds when this forum and the feedback site is the perfect forum to tell Apple that their design needs improvement. If Apple could put the basic 2G controls back to the 3G shuffle, then what would be the downside? IMO, a win/win for all of us. Those who love the Apple buds (with our without the inline controls), those who love their own buds. Guess the only loser would be the companies that were making a profit selling all those adapters that you bought(and Apple for trying to push their own buds). Just think, you and many of us may never need to buy another headset adapter for an Apple product ever again. Actually, I personally don't think anyone should have to buy an adapter, but to each their own.
And... maybe someday the Apple buds will be so great (which i have to give Apple credit, they are improving in sound quality each iteration.. vis a vi improvements in the player and/or the buds) that anyone purchasing an Apple product would never venture to use anyone else's.. that would be perfect.. That would be almost Apple Nirvana..
Don't get me wrong.. I have and will always be an Apple customer.. I owned the first Macintosh that Apple created (you know, the one where there was that runner that throws the sledge hammer into to screen commercial)so trust me, I am all Apple fan from many years back. But when I've grown up with Apple and to see them in recent years, make some poor design decisions, then I do get a bit upset. As a shareholder, I am very happy and very well off for it.
Bottom line.. I personally want to see Apple do the right thing.. put the basic contols back to the most basic of the ipod line.. Leave the hi tech voice over etc.. BS to the more expensive ipods and give us just a plain old small form factor player that has play, stop, volume up and volume down..
Anyway, thanks for your responses..