Thanks to those posting in this thread. It is good to know that it is being looked at by the community.
I have to say that this problem is odd as when I 1st got my Mini, I was able to go 1Gbits... then it stopped connecting via Ethernet. That is when I switched to wireless to just surf. With it turning into my main media PC in the home theater, I have to go wired and believe I need 1Gbit.
To test my in wall cabling, I got a $10 (i.e. CHEEEEAP)cat5 tester that will check for line breakage and if the lines are crossed, and all is good there. For the price of the tester, it does not test for the quality of the connection... It is better than nothing tho.
For this particular Mini issue (still fighting a color static from time to time) and to get get things ready for putting media PC's around the house, I decided to up the network infrastructure a bit. With this being said, I got an HP Procurve 1800-24G, and my Mini is directly connected to it... Still 100Mbits.
*I made sure the switch was at factory defaults... Still 100Mbits
*I updated the firmware on the switch... Still 100Mbits
My next step is to start from scratch on my cables and go overboard and get Cat6 cables from monoprice. They are on order, and will post the results when they come in.
Another thing I could try is go back to the original OS and see what happens, but I really do not want to do that.
I have a feeling that I will end up having to buy a $200 Acer Aspire Revo and run XBMC to do the work that the Mini is struggling with. Ugh.. So disappointed with this situation.
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