3gs wont connect to bluetooth on unibody MBP

like the title says, I consistently get errors trying to connect my 3gs to my new unibody via bluetooth. It worked fine until the last update before SL but now I have no such luck. When on the pairing screen it goes as far as showing the pairing code on screen, then the confirmation screen comes up on my 3gs. Whey I click confirm it things for a bit, then says that it could not pair with my laptop. Any insight on this?