Welcome to Discussions, queenbean
(A.) I suggest you uninstall Microsoft Messenger for Mac.
MSN Messenger for Mac does not support video except via Office Communications Server 2007 (usually paid for by commercial enterprises rather than individual users), it is
possible to video with your friends who use the
PC version of the MSN Messenger family of apps. Here are a couple of ways you can try:
(A1) Take a look at
aMSN and
Mercury
Either can do webcam video with your built-in iSight.
They work a bit differently, so use whichever you find easiest or most reliable on your MBP.
(A2) As an alternative, because your iNtel Mac can use
Boot Camp,
VMware Fusion™,
Parallels™, or
VirtualBox to run Windows® software, you can choose which method you want to use, add the required software to your iNtel Mac (if you have not already done so), and then install and use the same Windows® Messenger application that your contacts use.
If you need more help with Boot Camp than you get here, search or post in
Boot Camp discussions category
(A3) If your friends are willing to try something "new and improved" (does NOT work with Messenger):
you can both install and try a different video chat app such as
Google Talk or
Skype.
(B.) To configure GMail (Google Talk) to work with iChat via Jabber, follow the instructions here:
http://www.google.com/support/talk/bin/answer.py?answer=24076
(C.) If you are still having problems, you (or your chat contact) may be having system problems. Consider the suggestions in this post:
http://discussions.apple.com/thread.jspa?messageID=10161551�
(D.) Alternatively to (C.), you can use Google Talk on your iNtel Mac as explained here:
http://mail.google.com/support/bin/answer.py?answer=100173&hl=en
(E.) We will watch for your status update. Hopefully, you can soon report all is well!
EZ Jim
Mac Pro Quad Core (Early 2009) 2.93Ghz w/Mac OS X (10.6.1) MacBook Pro (13 inch, Mid 2009) 2.26GHz (10.6.1)
G5DP1.8GHz (10.5.8) G4 PowerBook 1.67GHz (10.4.11) iBookSE 366MHz (10.3.9) LED Cinema Display External iSight