I get a message from Little Snitch about 50 times a day. My rule database is growing quickly.
It should only be growing quickly if all the connections are different
and you're choosing the "Forever" and "Any connection" options for the Little Snitch dialog box. Otherwise, those rules would only apply during the current session of Safari; as soon as you quit, they're gone.
Maybe this 'feature' of Mac Mail has been around for a long time, and folks are used to it.
I don't see that as a feature, and I certainly don't experience that at all, even on my 10.4.11 system. If anything, I'd say it's a bug. You could also go the extra route of blocking those particular servers in your "hosts" file, like this:
Open Terminal and copy/paste this line:
sudo /Applications/TextEdit.app/Contents/MacOS/TextEdit /etc/hosts
It should open up a text file behind Terminal. Go to the end of the file, press Enter or Return for a new line and paste this:
0.0.0.0 xxxxxx.xxxxxx.xxx (where xxx.xxx.xxx.xxx is www.iknewserver.com, for example)
You could also purchase
Hostal for this purpose, which gives you a GUI instead of having to deal with Terminal.
Save,
not Save As…, and quit both applications.
Since I'm new here, I don't know what, if anything, to expect from Apple.
Apple doesn't respond to bug reports or feature suggestions; They do read them all and use them to track problems and develop fixes for them.