RMH,
No problem on the offer. Over the years I have received amazing help and kindness from fellow Mac user's that I will never be able to repay. It seems only fair that I do likewise as I am able. My knowledge is quite limited, but I do my best as do others in these forums many with much for experience than I will ever have.
I hear you about the graphics cards and I do not think that issue has been resolved at all. If we live to be 200 years old, there will no doubt still be some aspect of this that will infuriate computer user's, if they will even exist at that time. Human's could all be robotic critter's by then and have no need for 'externa'l computers. All of that will probably be 'built in'. Who knows? IC's are already being embedded in animals.
As to your unfortunate experience having forum poster's bashing you, this is not a surprise to me at all. A lot of folks behave this way because the can hide behind their curtain in unanimity and behave like trolls. My experience with regard to Apple has been on NASDAQ forums where some folks love to bash Apple. Pointless even writing about this. One post I will never forget happened just when the iPhone was introduced. One poster said that this would be the end of Apple because the smart phone business was way over Apple's head. I believe Apple slam dunked the 'smart phone' business with the iPhone. That bozo probably owns a iPhone (or two) by now. Just let it blow by. I know it is irritating, but no sense in letting it bother you. My spin on it anyway.
Never heard that 'crack' story, but it makes great sense. And I'd bet the bank that Apple is more than aware of that 'addictive concept', for lack of a better term.
As far as you wife's needs are, you may want to consider a refurbished Mac. I just purchased a 24 inch iMac from them last week. It is supposed to arrive here on the 8th. I may have already mentioned this to you earlier. Here is the link if you are interested:
http://tinyurl.com/yfn5m6kIf you scroll down just a bit you will see a 24-inch iMac for $1099. Can't beat that with a stick. As far as not needing the power to do this or that, you can never be certain what a person may want to do in the future. So, I believe it is better to have 'room' to grow especially at such a reduced price.
If she would rather have a new computer, then she may like the Air. I have been using a 17-inch PowerBook for years and the lack of monitor 'real estate' was driving me nuts which is why I ordered the i7. I need a larger monitor for Ps, LR and other apps that are easier to use with a larger monitor. She may find that a 17-inch monitor is sufficient for her need, but then again you mentioned spreadsheets ... so, I don't know which she would prefer. Everybody has different needs. Probably best to take her down to the Apple store and let her browse around and have them let her run Numbers to see how she feels about monitor size. Good luck with that.
Yeah, I love Chicago as well. Lot's to do here. Great weather, but I love the fall colors and the snow. Most folks are not too fond of the snow.
I think we're high-jacking this thread and perhaps we should go off line with our chat. Feel free to PM me and we can continue from there if you wish.
Have a good evening,
Phillip