Eh, if you've had Macs for awhile you're allowed a rant once in awhile.
I was surprised at the YouTube thing, I hadn't noticed it before. While this morning playing a song in iTunes I went from 4 cores reading about 53C to one at 82 and the other three 77-79, with my other other cores then showing a 20 degree heat rise from the 40s into the high sixties.
When I went to check out Youtube, my highest temps for any core went into the mid 70's and the rest were substantially lower. Not good, but overall better than iTunes.
The Youtube page also released the heat a lot quicker when I closed it than with iTunes. Seconds compared to minutes. It should be noted that I installed the Flash Player 10.1 beta,
http://labs.adobe.com/technologies/flashplayer10/
, which has dramatically reduced CPU usage for Flash in Safari.
I'm just hoping that's not why I now notice that flash sites are heating up the cores more than I remember. But I don't remember so take that only as something to check, before and after, if one wants to install it.
The Flash issue made the Mac Press big time awhile back, maybe that's why is was addressed so quickly. But I haven't seen anything on the iTunes bug anywhere. Unfortunately, if more machines break down like yours we will. And then Apple may act.