O2 official unlocking and using another SIM card
i got a text message from O2 this evening to say that my phone has now been unlocked and telling me to connect to iTunes. I connected to iTunes, which said the unlocking had been successful and asking me to update the carrier settings. However, clicking update produced an error in iTunes ("could not update the carrier settings"). I tried a different SIM card anyway (which happened to be an unused orange PAYG card which I had lying around. The phone said unknown SIM and demanded I connect to itunes. iTunes again said please download carrier settings; again, an error. Meanwhile, I got a few text messages saying welcome to orange despite the "connect to iTunes" image on screen and the iPhone still saying unknown sim. I turned the phone off and on; when iTunes next said to update carrier settings, I tried cancelling it; iPhone still said to connect to itunes. All this time, putting my old O2 SIM in worked fine.
I unplugged and plugged back in a few times... after about 10 mins, suddenly the phone's happy again and doesn't mind being on orange.
I then tried a third sim card, which was an old work card which i never gave back so: (1) i don't know if it's still active; and (2) it was locked so i can only call certain numbers. The phone told me to connect to itunes but and also said to insert an unlocked sim card. So I don't know if it would have worked if it hadn't been locked.
During this saga, i phoned apple tech support for advice, who could see i'd put in an orange sim card (he thought it was an orange phone) - now i'm bothered it'll only work on O2 and orange.
The moral of the story: (1) the carrier settings may not work; don't worry about it
(2) the phone takes a while to realise it's been dragged kicking and screaming from O2
(3) it's possible (I don't know this for a fact) that you have to connect to itunes every time you insert a card it's not used before
It's also possible that the carrier settings which didn't work would resolve number 3. I don't know. But this is a heads-up that it may not work properly the first time you put in a shiny new non-O2 sim card.
imac, iPhone OS 3.1.2, intel duo, 2ghz, 4 gb memory