Have read all this post and can confirm the following:-
1. I have a 2009 iMac 27 inch, a 2011 Macbook Pro, 3 ipods, an iPhone, iPad, Apple TV and an iPad 2. All connect via a Timecapsule to the internet over wifi. Yes I am a bit of an apple fan
2. Keep all software up-to-date and have one rule - NEVER install non-apple products unless you have to. That way you can be sure Apple cannot blame other 3rd party products on any failures.
3. I started to experience this internet dropping out after sleep about 2 weeks ago on the iMac 27inch. I am currently running 10.6.8 software on all computers. ALL OTHER DEVICES ARE FINE.
4. The symptoms are the same as this thread - ie the one non-apple product I do run (Skype), connects fine. Safari, Mail and iTunes - no connection. Timemachine fails too - cannot mount volume. When I go to Finder to view other devices on the local network - forget it - cannot see the local network. However wifi is showing as connected - and skype still works through internet. Go figure.
3. The only fix seems to be to reboot at present. Very frustrating.
4. All other devices work fine.
Apple - would be great to get a comment from you on this thread.