Welcome to the discussions, rick_lv!
+The SBG900 has been my router for a couple of years. Now I'd like to set the AE as my main router and take advantage of the n standard.+
Your SBG900 appears to be a gateway...a combination modem and router...that is most likely designed to function as a complete unit. In order for the AirPort Extreme to be your "main" router, you would need to connect it directly to a modem.
Whether or not the SBG900 can function only as a modem is open to question. Even if it were possible, it would require a number of configuration changes. Sorry, I can't help on that front, and your ISP probably won't be willing to help much either.
It would be far easier to allow the SBG900 to handle DHCP and NAT functions, as it is doing now, and simply connect the AirPort Extreme as a "bridge". When the AirPort Extreme is configured this way, it does not handle DHCP or NAT functions.
+It's my understanding that the DHCP cannot be turned off on the AE, is it correct?+
No, this is not correct. When the AirPort Extreme (or any other router for that matter) is configured as a bridge, DHCP is turned off.
You will be able to setup a dual band 5 GHz and 2.4 GHz wireless network with the AirPort Extreme when it is configured as a bridge. Faster "n" devices will connect to the 5 GHz band and slower devices will connect to the 2.4 GHz band.
But, you will not be able to setup a separate Guest network with this type of configuration. The Guest network feature can only be enabled if the AirPort Extreme is connected directly to a modem, not another router.
Please post back if you feel that using the AirPort Extreme as a bridge would work for you and I'll provide a step by step reply to configure it that way.