My ringtones aren't showing up on my phone

I, like many others, had my phone "synced" when I didn't want it synced. It took all my music, videos, and ringtones off my phone. The music and videos are no problem gettin back on, and that part is already done. The ringtones are a different problem. If I sync the ringtones in my iTunes, they all go on and show up. If I manually add them, only 1 shows up.

Now, I love the iPhone. It's a great phone. The problem with the iPhone is that it is made by Apple, who *****. Their too concerned with making people buy ringtones to make more money they screw us over and we cant even make ringtones out of songs we bought.

If anyone can tell me why the ringtones show up in the Ringtones folder under my iPhone in iTunes, but dont show up on my iPhone when they were there today, you'll have my respect. Why only 1 of the ringtones on my iPhone actually shows up boggles my mind. They're the same dang ringtones that we on my iPhone earlier, and now they dont work ???

AAC version, change to .m4r. Done all that, and only 1 works.

It would be great if someone from Apple were to read this, so they could know I'll be getting a freaking sweet new Blackberry when my contract comes up. No more iPhones for me. No iPad. No Mac computers. Your crap *****, not because they aren't good products, but because the people behind the products are frickin idiots and ya have to have all your stupid Apple rules. Is it so bad to make my own ringtones instead of paying $2 for one? Really?

Yeah, so, Apple, I'm ******. Thanks for frickin up, again.