Kevin,
That was my experience as well. There are some work arounds, like while in Safari, but the defaults, the System Preferences, Menus and Pop Ups are not changeable.
I'd recommend you call Apple immediately if the work arounds don't help and you're still having trouble. To me too, it's insane Apple doesn't make an anti-glare screen for the 1440x900. I think they're trying to kill it. Is cheaper if they have fewer parts and variables in their production line, but a certain set of consumers get hurt as a result. I too can read the small display but very quickly I start to get a little blurry reading the smaller print that comes up sometimes. Cumulatively it didn't work for me. I spoke with someone in Customer Relations (ask for their number, they're a lot more helpful than the Store or customer service) and they are taking back the machine and not charging me restocking (though I got mine by the Apple Store phone and resolution never came up --not that I'd have fully known the implications just by the phrase high-resolution anyway--not sure if they do that if ordered by other means).
Good luck. Sounds like a number of people love the higher resolution devices, but even though I consider my eyes very good and I can read street signs before most other people in cars with me, I really cannot get behind that level of higher resolution and small print. Good luck.
Give Apple feedback here (
http://www.apple.com/feedback/) requesting a 1440x900 anti-glare screen. There's an specific group of people who would want BOTH larger print and anti-glare: long-standing, older Mac users and probably a number of other people if the hand-wringing we read about in these pages is any indication. Some people want that combo despite Apple's lame decision not to offer those machines. Make your voice heard on the feedback page. If enough people write in, perhaps they will change the policy.
In the meantime, sadly I'm reverting to a 2.4 Ghz Core2Duo with an anti-glare screen. Is nowhere near what I wanted, but oh well, is all they're offering that meets my needs at this time.
Best of luck.