I have the same problem and as much as I have enjoyed the OS 4.0 update, this little cork have become a big issue for me. We are all supposed to be hands-free when driving and bought this just for that reason. Before the update I enjoyed listening to music and when a call came in, I could answer the call with a slide of a finger and the music lowers, then I can talk to the person calling over my car speakers. After the call, the music starts right back up. THIS IS THE WAY IT SHOULD WORK!!! Now after the update, the volume is soooo freak'n low. I actually thought I had no volume, but after reading Hoyland's post I tried cracking my volume and discovered I could barely hear it. Then I forgot to lower it and blasted my speakers with full volume. Opps. Please restore the volume level to how 3.0 was. Being hands-free is safe and in many places it is illegal to talk without it. Now when a call comes in, I have to look down, disconnect the headset port, then lift off the iphone, and fingerslide to answer the call; and after that i have to place it all back again to listen to music on my iphone, all while driving 55mph. Not safe anymore. Please fix this.