It’s a little late for me to prepare a full response tonight, however, given your described application, using a VPN via a commercial VPN operator is going to do little to effectively secure the systems that you are trying to control remotely.
As described, you”ll have a very secure connection between your iPad and the point that your VPN connection terminates (i.e., the VPN server); your connection from there to your meeting hall - and importantly, the public IP address of the system you are controlling - has little protection.
What you should be concentrating on is how to secure the remote systems. You’re already on one potentialy right track, but this particular track would require that you set-up a VPN server at the point of ingress to your hall’s remote systems. It’s all possible, but you’ll need a little more knowledge to configure this kind of system. For example, assuming the hall has a broadband connection utilising a broadband router that has a VPN Server capability (for example, a Draytek Vigor 2860 - other suitable routers are available), then you could build a VPN-protected solution.
Using a commercial VPN, such as ExpressVPN, is very good at protecting your local traffic from interception over something like a public WiFi hotspot - or for your traffic to “appear” as if it is originating from somewhere else so as to bypass geo-restrictions that might prevent streaming services from operating. If your intent is to protect the entire path between your iPad and a remote system, using VPN, then a commercial service such as ExpressVPN (or others) will not achieve the securty aspects/solution that you appear to seek.
You might even consider building a VPN Server on something like a Raspberry Pi computer (something I feel sure you may have heard of), at relatively low cost, but this will require a little more lnowledge and expertise than I fear you may currently have available to you.