cannot back up to TC or delete backup file
A few days ago, Time Machine stopped updating, telling me there was not enough room on my backup disk (a Time Capsule). Although there was over 500GB of free space on my 2TB TC, Time Machine seems to have determined that it needed to back up more than 700GB - i.e. nearly everything stored on my machine. Rather than creating space by deleting old backups as usual, it simply refused to back up, telling me either to reduce the size of the nackup by excluding items, or to create more space.
Since excluding items from the backup would pretty much defeat the purpose of the backup, I decided to connect to the TC and manually delete my backup file so that it could start again. The process went on for many hours, but eventually Finder reported that it wasn’t possible to delete the file (‘The operation can’t be completed because the item “bands” is in use’). I tried again, this time closing all applications - same result - though by this time the size of the file had reduced from c.800GB to just over 200GB. Since there is now plenty of free space on the TC, I then tried to run the backup, but got an error saying that the sparesbundle file couldn’t be accessed. Finally, I’ve tried to change the name of the backup file, but I get the same error message as when trying to delete it.
It may be relevant to mention that I also back up my wife’s laptop to the same TC (manually, about once a month, whereas for my main machine, Time Machine runs continally in the background). For that reason I am reluctant to wipe/reformat the disk as I would then need to carry out full backups of both machines, likely to be a lengthy operation, and be without a backup in the meantime. This would be particularly disruptive for my wife as the TC lives in our garden office so she’d be unable to use the laptop elsewhere in the meantime.
I’d be grateful for any light anyone can shed on this situation and suggested workarounds.
Thanks in advance.
iMac 27", macOS 10.14