... I am in Safari and I click on bookmarks>show favorites.
Please describe how to duplicate what you're doing, because there is no such menu option on any Safari version that I know of.
The Bookmarks menu should resemble this:

Since yours is apparently different, describe what you see.
If that doesn't help, here are some additional troubleshooting suggestions that may help isolate the cause.
If you don't get anywhere, you can use the following procedure to determine if the problem is internal or external to your Mac. Causes may involve your router, your ISP, the DNS Server(s) it uses, or certain user-configurable options.
- Shut down your Mac.
- Load macOS Recovery by holding ⌘ and r (two fingers) while you start your Mac with a third finger.
- At the macOS Utilities screen, release those two fingers.
- Choose Get Help Online.
- Safari will launch, but it will lack your bookmarks, favorites, history and other preferences.
Determine if the problem persists while using Safari in that mode. After that, restart your Mac normally, and reply with your observations.