It won’t let me set it up manually
It won’t let me set it up manually because it had to be updated but I restarted it without updating it
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What is "it" in your post? Do you mean the phone, your computer or iTunes on your computer? Or do the "it's mean something different in each use of "it"? Or something else? Did you try following these instructions in this link-->If you can't activate your iPhone - Apple Support