Airdrop not showing in my settings and I can't find that option

Check Content and Privacy Restrictions in Settings-Screen Time. You've probably got Airdrop turned off.

Hello!

Is your software up to date?

If you go to settings, and then general, the third option should be ‘airdrop’.

select ‘airdrop’ and select the mode you would like to use.

To airdrop, another person with airdrop turned on must be nearby and ready to receive.

I hope this helps!

You can force touch the network panel in control center. (The network panel contains the wifi and bluetooth icons).

Swipe down from the top right corner

force touch the network panel

turn airdrop on

I hope this helps!

You're welcome