I need to speak with someone about the money taken out of my card I do not have and don’t want I tunes !

This is a user to user forum I am afraid. If you need help from Apple with something in your account you want to go to http://reportaproblem.apple.com or http://getsupport.apple.com

If you've looked at the purchase histories of all iTunes accounts you have linked to the card and not found it (and checked iCloud storage upgrades) : See your purchase history in the App Store or iTunes Store - Apple Support

and : If you see 'itunes.com/bill' or an unfamiliar charge on your statement - Apple Support

and : About payment card authorization holds from the App Store or iTunes Store - Apple Support

contact the card issuer