Cannot upgrade to Catalina - FileVault Encrypting
I have 2013 MacBook pro that I recently updated to High Sierra.
I have been unable to do a time machine backup because it says FileVault is currently encrytping(been like this for 3 weeks), so my most recent backup is prior to the HS update.
Also whenever I shutdown the mac, it gets stuck with a black screen and I have to hold the power button down to stop it - including restarts.
I figured I would update to Catalina in an attempt to fix the issues.
But when trying to install it fails when it says FileVault is currently encrypting, so I cannot upgrade.
My next thought was to turn off FileVault, but alas this is also not working as the turn off button is grayed out, I have tried a few things like creating an alternate user, but the turn off FileVault option is always unavailable(yes, I unlock the panel with root password).
So as you can see I am stuck, unable to upgrade or even take a backup, please help
MacBook Pro Retina