2017 MBP and iPhone SE can't discover each other in airdrop
I can no longer airdrop between my MBP (2017 13" touchbar, Catalina 10.15.2, all apps up to date) and iPhone SE. I can airdrop in either direction between another MBP (2017 15", still on 10.15.1) and the phone, so it seems like the issue is with the laptop.
Airdrop was working a couple of weeks ago, when the MBP was running Mojave.
"Can't airdrop" means when I try to share, the airdrop window does not show any destination devices.
I have tried with airdrop set to 'anyone' on both ends, and to 'contacts only'
I have the MBP firewall turned off in system prefs -> privacy -> firewall
I have restarted both devices, including booting the MBP in safe mode and then in normal mode.
I have turned bluetooth and wifi off on both devices, then back on.
What else can I do? Is there another permission setting needed in 10.15.2?
MacBook Pro 13", macOS 10.15