Why i cant delete my card in my account

See this Apple support article—>Change, add, or remove Apple ID payment methods - Apple Support

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Why you can't, we wouldn't know. See this Apple Support article about how to change your payment method --> Change, add, or remove Apple ID payment methods - Apple Support