Hello _danielle,
After reviewing your post, it sounds like you want to get a refund for a purchase, but they say pending so you are not able to request a refund yourself.
If the charge is pending, you canʼt request a refund yet. After the charge goes through, try to request a refund again.
If you have an unpaid order, you need to pay for that order before you request a refund. You might need to update your payment information."
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