I can't reset my security question,

contact Apple ID Support. See the Apple Support articles below for contact information.  

Apple ID - Official Apple Support.    

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From the Apple Support article below. 

Without proof of your identity via security questions and other carefully selected criteria, Apple Support can't help you reset a password or perform any other actions on your account. These policies are audited and reviewed on a regular basis.

Security and your Apple ID - Apple Support.      

Try going into this link: https://iforgot.apple.com/password/verify/appleid

As long as you remember the password for the Apple ID, and the answer for at least one security question, you can reset your security questions.

See If you forgot the answers to your Apple ID security questions https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT201485

Since you can't answer your security question satisfactorily, see Security and your Apple ID https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT201303

This document says “without proof of your identity via security questions and other carefully selected criteria, Apple Support can't help you reset a password or perform any other actions on your account.”

Thus, given that you can't answer your security questions satisfactorily, we can do nothing to help you, except to mention that Apple support might help you if you have an extenuating circumstance (e.g., you have the receipt for your purchase of a pertinent device with its serial number on it or a court order instructing Apple to assist in the provision of access to a decedent’s information from the deceased person's accounts). See How to request access to a deceased family member's Apple accounts https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT208510.

if you want to contact Apple support to discuss an extenuating circumstance, even one not mentioned above,

see these support options:

Get a call from Apple support to help solve your problem using this

link https://getsupport.apple.com/?caller=kbase&PGF=PGF63005&category_id=SC0245&symptom_id=23362

Apple ID Support https://support.apple.com/apple-id

Apple ID account security for country-specific and region-specific help https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT204169

Get Support: We’re here to help https://getsupport.apple.com/. Go through the options to find the best support option.