I did contact apple and the answer was... buy an apple device we can not help you.
Thing is I am more or less stuck in Vietnam half a world away from my homecountry.
When you travel it is very difficult to contact apple and in my case unless I want to pay 11$ a minute.
There used to be a chat option and I spend days trying out different support options in hope it lead to a chat and not phone support (different problems can result in different contact methods) but I did not manage to get a chat option.
Thing is my own country phone subscription i put on hold because I travel for so long.
I managed to find a way through twitter since I ended up having 3 apple devices fail on me.. I am working on the warranty support on airpods through twitter when I end up with this password problem I mention it ind the twitter chat with them and the send back litteraly “buy and apple device or no passwords followed about some “get a lawyer mumbo jumbo” and then silence!!! .....so now I am not even able to do support on the airpods.
I ended up having to use harsh words as “EU Commission” and “GPDR”.
Even if you have access to your phone number getting hold of actual apple support leads to many dead ends if you do not have any device within warranty
My homecountry is very digital so passwords for, government, bank, payment services, doctor, medicine, travel insurrance, communication, travel bookings etc etc. are now being held “hostage” by apple while I sit here.