I want to get me Apple ID and password without resetting it

See  If you forgot your Apple ID password https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT201487

You also can use Having trouble signing in/iForgot https://iforgot.apple.com/password/verify/appleid 

You also are likely to need to See If you forgot the answers to your Apple ID security questions https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT201485

Go here if you need additional support Apple telephone support https://getsupport.apple.com/?caller=kbase&PGF=PGF63005&category_id=SC0245&symptom_id=23362

For worldwide Apple ID support https://getsupport.apple.com/?caller=kbase&PGF=PG

Did you forget the password? Enter the Apple (iCloud) ID and click Forgot Password.

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