This is a user forum and I think we all agree with you.
Have you contacted Apple Support directly for assistance? Always best to do when abrupt changes in phone behaviour happen - they can run diagnostics on your battery and make specific recommendations. Also, the more people contact them the better idea they get of the scale of a problem.
Of SravanKrA's tips setting your phone to manually fetch mail etc and turning off background app refresh are ones that save a lot. As you probably know in Settings>Battery it shows usage indicating which apps are drawing the most power and you can maybe adjust those temporarily until Apple fix the issue [or the phone gets used to the new software - not sure I subscribe to that idea]
Have you tried a Force Restart just in case there are legacy issues hanging over from before the update? In quick succession: Briefly press & release the Up Volume, then briefly press & release the Down Volume, then press and HOLD DOWN the Power Button, and keep it held as the screen shows the power off slider, still keeping the Power Button held while the screen goes dark and keep it held until the Apple logo appears, then release it. The phone will restart, hopefully a lot cleaner than before.
I don't use my phone a lot but after a Force Restart and adjusting fetch and background app refresh am running on a charge from Wed, 20:00 GMT [UK] and now down to 50% so something worked.
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