Update Apple ID settings stuck how to fix this issue pls help

This is your problem, an updating Apple ID settings problem. Apple is aware of the problem.

I suggest you use my search link (update apple id settings) in trying to solve your problem. You will see many links that are related to it. But, note that I have not seen a definitive solution for it. 

If you want to contact Apple Support to deal with your problem, see:

Get a call from Apple support to help solve your problem using this link https://getsupport.apple.com/?caller=kbase&PGF=PGF63005&category_id=SC0245&symptom_id=23362

Apple ID Support https://support.apple.com/apple-id

Apple Support Twitter https://twitter.com/AppleSupport

Apple ID account security for country-specific and region-specific help https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT204169

Get Support: We’re here to help https://getsupport.apple.com/. Go through the options to find the best one.

 contact Apple ID Support.  See the Apple Support articles below for contact information.  

Apple ID - Official Apple Support.    

Contact Apple for help with Apple ID account security - Apple Support.   (Link doesn’t always load)  

Get Support          Work through the screens to get a chat option. You may have to pick a slightly different problem.

Apple Support schedule phone call

https://twitter.com/AppleSupport.          People have posted it may take an hour or more to get a response.

Some people have fixed this by signing out of iCloud, restarting their device, and then logging back in. That hasn't worked for everyone.

There was a post that stated this was a problem that Apple is aware of and is trying to fix.

Settings - Update Apple ID Settings When It Won’t Go Away.    

Settings - Update Apple ID Settings When It Won’t Go Away (2).    

See the two posts above.

It's a tough nut to crack. Good luck with it Be safe.