iMessage intrusion

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iMessage intrusion

So I have just realised that all my iMessages have been going through my step daughters phone for the past two years. I was not aware of this until I found out by chance. My step daughter was never allowed to take her phone to our house by her mother, and was always made to leave it downstairs in her mums house at night, now I know why. She has been getting all my text messages and reading them while my step daughter is not there. How can I prove this? As she is denying it. I have had all mine, my stepdaughters and my husbands phone infront of me and text him from mine and mine from his and both times it’s came up on her phone as a conversation. Which makes me feel sick. All previous conversation had been deleted before I got a hold of her phone. Please Help!!!

iPhone 8, iOS 13

Posted on Jul 2, 2020 1:14 AM

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donv_the_ghost

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Jul 2, 2020 1:43 AM in response to Hrobertson13

We can't, and Apple will not, help with the things you mention. I understand your feelings, but the Apple account security system just doesn't allow help of this nature with the in regard to Apple ID accounts.

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Jul 2, 2020 1:22 AM in response to Hrobertson13

Are you and you step daughter sharing an Apple ID? If yes, that would explain your problem. But, if you are not sharing one, then

Change your Apple ID password https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT201355

Here is What to do after you change your Apple ID or password https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT204071

Also, if you can, Check your Apple ID device list (https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT205064) and remove any device that shouldn't be signed in using the steps in the link.

For Apple Support help with your problem, use:

Get a call from Apple support to help solve your problem using this link https://getsupport.apple.com/?caller=kbase&PGF=PGF63005&category_id=SC0245&symptom_id=23362

Apple ID Support https://support.apple.com/apple-id

Apple Support Twitter https://twitter.com/AppleSupport

Apple ID account security for country-specific and region-specific help https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT204169

Get Support: We’re here to help https://getsupport.apple.com/. Go through the options to find the best support option.

And, here are some Apple security documents for future reference:

If you think your Apple ID has been compromised https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT204145.

Security and your Apple ID https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT201303

iCloud security overview https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT202303

Ways to keep your information safe on Mac https://support.apple.com/en-gb/guide/mac-help/mh11402/mac

Using app-specific passwords https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT204397

Use Two-factor authentication for Apple ID https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT204915

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Hrobertson13 Author

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Jul 2, 2020 1:37 AM in response to Hrobertson13

Yes we do. I didn’t realise this would mean she could read my messages, but the problem is trying to prove this as all previous messages had been deleted. Is there no way for Apple to look at records to prove two devices have always been getting my messages? Is there any way to tell when they have been read in other devices? Her mum is denying this and is saying she’s never seen any messages (playing dumb basically). I need to be able to prove that she has been reading them then deleting them. I have since took her off my iCloud and changed my password but as u can imagine this has been causing me great anxiety thinking back to two years ago wondering what she has read etc. Total invasion of privacy I feel sick wit it all

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