i phone 7... screen message says "iphone is disabled connect to Itunes"
I am in itunes on lap top ....when i get into Itunes where do i go from there?
iPhone 7, iOS 13
That means you have entered your passcode incorrectly 10 times. You will need to restore your iPhone to factory settings.
Follow the steps on this Apple support link on how you can do that:
If you've forgotten the passcode on your iPhone, or your iPhone is disabled – Apple Support