iPad disabled. No computer to reset

If your iPad is disabled, you have no alternative other than to follow this process:

https://support.apple.com/en-gb/HT211078

You’ll need access to either a PC (with iTunes installed) or a Mac (with iTunes or Finder - as appropriate for the installed version of MacOS). The PC/Mac doesn’t need to be your own - that of a helpful friend or family member will suffice. If not available, the Genius Bar at your local Apple Store will be pleased to assist.

You’ll also need your AppleID and associated password. If these have also been forgotten, they can be recovered here:

https://iforgot.apple.com

To recover your credentials, you’ll need access to one of the following:

• Your primary email address mailbox that corresponds with your AppleID
• Any of the secondary/recovery email addresses that should be configured for your AppleID account
• Any of the trusted telephone numbers (fixed line or Cellular/Mobile) that are associated with your AppleID

Unless you AppleID account has not been fully/correctly configured, or has been seriously neglected, recovery of the AppleID and password should not be difficult.

More information about recovery of your AppleID:

https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT201354

More information about recovery of your AppleID password:

https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT201487

When you recover access to your credentials, you would be well advised to log-in to your AppleID account from a web browser - and verify/update any email addresses and trusted telephone numbers:

https://appleid.apple.com

Please don’t shoot the messenger. We can only communicate to you the procedure that you must follow for a given issue. Please remember that no contributors here represent Apple; we are all end-user customers, just like you. We try to offer assistance with technical issues where we can, but we are unable to offer alternative procedures that don’t exist.

In your case, if your iPad is disabled - or your passcode is not accepted for any reason - it is necessary to “restore” the device using either a PC or Mac computer. At present, these are the only methods by which you can regain use of your iPad.

The only other alternative is for you to directly contact Apple Support for assistance. They will guide you through the very same procedures that are outlined here. Should you wish to follow this path, the Contact Support link is at top-right of this page.

If you wish to express your evident displeasure, you might better aim comment to Apple using their product feedback pages:

Product Feedback - Apple

You need a PC or Mac to reset it