When I try to update I get this code message "4103"
iPhone XS
See this --> If you see an error when you update or restore your iPhone ...
Or this --> iOS update and restore errors - Apple Support
Error 9, 4005, 4013, 4014 --> If you see error 9, 4005, 4013, or 4014 when you restore your ...
Error 4103 or 4013?
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Error code 4103
