Need to find out if my phones bugged

Well, you don’t.

Restore your iPhone.

What you can do is change the password to your Apple ID, email , Cellular provider and social media accounts.

Do not give out any passwords, do not share IDs and don’t give anyone access to your device.

What are you seeing that makes you think your phone was 'bugged'?

Do you share an Apple ID with him?

What makes you think that you iPhone is "Bugged"? If you can provide more details then we will be able to provide some direction. Thanks.

Axel F.