I have updated my Mac to: macOS Catalina 10.15.6 and iTunes seems to be update as there is no update and my finder is at 10.15.6.
when I connect my iPhone XS Max to the Mac it gives me option to update or restore I chose update then it says: iPhone recovery mode your Mac is preparing to update software on this iPhone.
my iPhone then gets the Apple logo with the progress bar under it everything seems to look fine then again midway through the update it still gives me the message: the iPhone could not be updated. An unknown error occurred. (14)
now my iPhone is stuck at the Apple logo with the progress bar partially complete
I don’t want to factory restore my iPhone I’m trying to avoid this.