I am unable to update my iOS to 14 it always just shows update requested

Hello,

I think you should force your device to restart.

1-Quickly press and release the volume-up button 

2-Quickly press and release the volume-down button

3-Finally, press and hold the side button (right) until the Apple logo appears, and then release.

Let me know if that works.

See if anything here helps.

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