Hi nanig8,
In reviewing your post, we see that the Quick Start transfer between your iPhone 7 and iPhone 11 seems to have stalled.
Both phones would need to remain in close proximity to each other for the transfer to complete. If it has stalled for some time now, the new iPhone you're transferring data to may need to be erased, and the process started from the beginning.
Take a moment to restart both iPhones. After restarting, if the iPhone you're intending to transfer data to takes you to the Home screen, it would need to be erased. Once erased, it will be ready to set back up.
Follow the steps here to restart both iPhones.
After restarting, if necessary, follow these steps to erase the iPhone intended to be the recipient of the data transfer.
Finally, these steps outline the Quick Start process.
Feel free to reply to this thread if you have any further questions.
Cheers!