10 iPhones in 6 months all being hacked
So I’ll make a long story short. I had a gf who started installing adware and malware onto my phones and computers. When I kicked her out the gf before her picked her up and I had no idea they even knew each other. Anyway I’ve had 10 iPhones in 6 months some new straight from the store some second hand they seem to get hacked the second I turn them on even when not signing in with an Apple ID but as soon as whoever is doing this figures out my phone number it gets hacked. My whole family has iPhones and it’s happening to everyone but mainly my mom and I. Most recently I’ve seen business chat used because whenever I mentioned one of the ex’s names their name will go grey for a second. They’ve also been able to shutdown our business phone lines and internet. The story is to long to tell and sounds crazy but does anyone have any suggestions? Could I text one of the ex’s and that open up a way for them to hack my phone? Please any help this whole thing is driving me up the wall and slowly killing me?
iPhone SE