AirDrop says "waiting" but never connects
My wife and I both have iPhone 11's. Airdrop has never worked. We've tried all of the troubleshooting suggestions. Both phones show each other as available to Airdrop, but it always says "waiting" and just spins. The receiving phone never a gets a message to accept an AirDrop. My AirDrop has never worked with another iPhone, my wife's phone doesn't have any issue with other phones. Any suggestions?
(Bluetooth is on, Wi-fi is on and connected w/ excellent signal, Hotspot is off, and we are sitting next to each other)
iPhone 11, iOS 14