If you will re-read the terms of use here, we are not allowed to discuss Apple policies or decisions. That is not within the scope of the forums - technical help on how to use the device is.
And, asking if Apple should be responsible for disposal is not. Rephrasing the question to “how can I dispose.....” is.
As well, there is no one from “Apple corporate” here. If you wish to address the junior (or any) VP, send a snail mail letter to their corporate address - that would be the best way to get their attention.
If Apple will not accept it for recycling, then take it to a local recycler as I had suggested. That is one of two ways - the other being you take a hammer to it and then turn it in. That will destroy any chance of extracting any private data on it.