hard drive keeps unmounting, and TM still encrypting after a month
I got a new 12TB WD Elements hard drive about a month and half ago and I set it up as my Time Machine drive with my Mac Mini, and since then I've had intermittent issues with it un-mounting on its own. At first it would un-mount on its own and also automatically re-mount as well (the only reason I knew that it un-mounted was because of the multiple notifications "disk was not ejected properly" that I would find on my screen when I'd wake up the display), but the last couple times it hasn't re-mounted. In fact, it didn't even show up in Disk Utility until I unplugged and replugged the USB cable. Unplugging and replugging the drive's power didn't seem to help.
I tried running First Aid on the hard drive ("logical volume"), but it said "First Aid process has failed. If possible back up the data on this volume." Then I tried running First Aid on the parent "WD Elements 25A3 Media" drive (in the left side bar, my hard drive's name is under this), and it said there was corruption that needed to be repaired, and to run first aid from recovery. I haven't tried this yet though because the drive has been encrypting for the last 1.5 months and I'm scare it will start over. By the way, is it normal for Time Machine to take over a month to encrypt a 12TB drive (only about 1.5TB is actually being used though)? I started in mid October and it's the end of November and it's only at around 80%.
The drive is plugged directly into my Mac Mini. I have two other external hard drives also plugged directly into the Mini, but which do not have this problem. I'm going to try switching the USB port with another drive and see if it un-mounts after awhile again. But in the meantime, any thoughts would be appreciated. Is it just a defective drive? If I get a new drive, is there any way I can avoid another 2 months of encrypting?
One more bit of info- I've had issues with other hard drives un-mounting from this Mac Mini before. It was years ago though so I don't remember how often it happened or which drives they were. But just thought I'd throw that in there.
I appreciate any help!
2014 Mac Mini (I chose "mac mini 2018 or later" in the options, but only because there was no older Mac Mini option; mine is a 2014.)
Mojave 10.14.6
Mac mini 2018 or later