I can not can do the updates I need help

Start here, If your iPhone, iPad or iPod touch won’t update - Apple Support

You do not indicate what version of iPhone you have or the current iOS you have. Is it possible your iPhone is not eligible for update?

Hello Redmartha03 -

It sounds like you are trying to update the software on an iPhone. Which iPhone do you have and what is the current iOS your phone is running?

Read the replies that you have received. There is help there.

If you can do the updates, what can we help you with?