i am getting an error that says "you have not verified your account" when i try to download from the apple store

Log into your account in the App Store/iTunes and you should be able to change/verify it there. Or you can click the blue Edit payment methods in the article below. When signed in and the page loads, you will be on the credit card page. After updating that, click the Go Back button at the lower left and you will be on the address page.

Apple ID payment information - change.  

How to Fix “Verification Required” for Apps Downloads on iPhone and iPad