iphone XS Max wont sync on Imac running catalina
Since I installed Catalina my problems with my iMac and iPhone have begun.
When I connect my iPhone XS Max (IOS 14.2) using an Apple USB cable to my iMac (Late 2013) running Catalina 10.15.7 (19H114). The only option I get is restore iPhone and update (which is greyed out). So I can only click restore and not update. I don't want to restore the iPhone is there any other way to overcome this situation. I have tried restarting the iPhone, resetting it etc. to no effect. Please help.
iPhone XS Max