My card gets declined and it doesn’t let me remove or add a card????

Know it here --> If your payment method is declined in the App Store or iTunes ...

Check the following

1. The payment method that you are adding is of the same country as that of App Store Country on your iPhone
2. You have valid payment plan / debit / credit card from an authorised bank from the same country
3. Payment methods that you can use with your Apple ID - Apple Support
4. Learn more about family purchases and payments.
5. Please check if your Debit/Credit card is valid internationally

Based on your country of residence or country you have selected under your Apple ID --> Payment methods that you can use with your Apple ID - Apple ...

Ask your bank only one thing, i.e. if the Debit/Credit card which is issued to you is valid internationally.

Rest everything check at your end.

Check the following

1. The payment method that you are adding is of the same country as that of App Store Country on your iPhone
2. You have valid payment plan / debit / credit card from an authorised bank from the same country as that of your Apple ID
3. Learn more about family purchases and payments.

You need to add one before you can delete the existing if any of the following conditions exist.

1. If you have an unpaid balance or payment due
2. If you have a subscription that automatically renews
3. If you're using the iTunes Store or App Store for the first time
4. If you are not in the country or region you’re creating an Apple ID for
5. If you changed your country or region
6. If you're a part of Family Sharing