Hello karinfromarlington,
Welcome to Apple Support Communities!
If we understand your post correctly, your AirPods are not connecting to your Mac. We're happy to help!
If you're using AirPods (2nd generation), make sure that your Mac has macOS 10.14.4 or later. If you're using AirPods (1st generation), make sure that your Mac is using macOS Sierra or later.
Choose Apple menu > System Preferences, then click Bluetooth. If your Airpods appear in the list of devices* but they don't connect, remove your AirPods from the list:
- Select your AirPods in the list of devices.
- Click the X to the right of your AirPods.
Add your AirPods to the device list in Bluetooth preferences again:
- Place both AirPods in the charging case.
- Open the lid of your charging case near your Mac.
- In the device list, select your Airpods and click Connect.
Test your AirPods. If you still can't connect, reset your AirPods."
If your AirPods won't connect
Let us know if you have any questions.
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Take care!