Hi there JvNeumann,
We understand you're noticing your recipient's name turn a different color when typing a message, and we'd like to share a resource that can help.
Check it out here: Send messages on Mac
Specifically, review the section below:
"Use mentions in conversations
With macOS Big Sur, you can mention other people in a conversation to call their attention to a specific message. Depending on their settings, this notifies them even if they have muted the conversation.
Mentions are available when you use iMessage.
- In the Messages app on your Mac, select a conversation.
- To search for contacts and content in conversations, click in the Search field in the top-left corner and enter what you’re looking for. Or, choose from the suggested contacts, links, photos, and more.
- If you’re restricted to sending and receiving messages with only certain people, an hourglass icon appears next to those people you can’t send messages to.
2. Begin typing a contact’s name in the message field at the bottom of the window.
- After you type the person’s name, it becomes dim—click it, then select the contact’s name when it appears.
- You can also mention a contact in Messages by typing @ followed by the contact’s name.
To change your notification preferences when you’re mentioned in Messages, go to Messages > Preferences, click General, then select (or deselect) “Notify me when my name is mentioned.” See Manage notifications from Messages."
Cheers!