Refunding money from my apple id

I don't think you can. If it is from a gift card you may be able to get a couple of dollars, depending upon your state laws.

Check your Apple ID balance - https://support.apple.com/HT202359 -->

"About unused Apple ID balance

You can't redeem or return Apple Gift Cards, App Store & iTunes Gift Cards, or unused Apple ID balance for cash, except as required by law. If your jurisdiction allows for refund of redeemed gift balances, you can contact Apple Support to request a refund. When you contact Apple, please include the following information:

Your Apple ID.

The refund amount.

Your current shipping address."

To contact Apple Support this is the link they provide: https://support.apple.com/contact

You can request a refund by going to this website. https://reportaproblem.apple.com