so as the email told you.. there is a link for feedback.
This is a technical support forum, not a rant forum.
You are not talking to Apple here, so therefore your post wasn't removed because you 'insulted Apple's intelligence'.
You don't appear to have a technical support question.. so your post might once again be removed.
As far as the cursor goes, you can tap and hold the spacebar to place it wherever you want to. It's pretty slick.
The alarms.. you can still access a wheel, but it's not as large or as convenient.
I've seen others complain about this too, which I personally don't understand. I know you get used to what you're used to, but how could entering the exact time be so much more difficult than spinning some wheels?
If you're so displeased with your iPhone and/or iOS updates, get a phone that better suits your needs.. Or send your feedback to the proper channel